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9 years

September 1, 2018

I’ve had this blog for 9 years. Thats…. that’s a long time.

A lot of dead time but hey…life and writers block are assholes at times. So, I do what I can, when I can… when I’m allowed.. When life doesn’t try and boss me around…

So, I’m going to try and post more.  Stories…life… stuff…. hopefully more stories. But, that truly depends on my brain.  If it will let me focus enough to get the full story out before it decides to envelope it in the dense fog of forgetfulness.

Here’s to another year. One that is, I hope, full of fun and joy, stories and maybe just a bit more laughter.


Thank you!


A new piercing

March 8, 2017

So i had my daith pierced today. My right one to be precise. 

It hurt.  It REALLY FUCKING HURT. to the point that my body decided that crying was the only option. I was disappointed. Ive never cried with my tatts or piercings.  I also didnt choose to cry today. It was involuntarily. And it hurt……hhhuuuuurrrrrtttttttttt
But the hope is that it takes care of my migraines. Its a bit sore right now but i also cleaned it. Carefully lol. 

And of course im looking at jewelry. Haha

I love to cook

February 22, 2017

Cooking grounds me almost as much as the beach. Ive missed it so much.  
Chicken fried chicken and homemade gravy

Smashed red potatoes with roasted garlic and Cabot extra sharp cheddar cheese


When it starts…

February 13, 2017

When a story starts out like a bad porno….its gonna be a damn good day. 

Yay for tubs

February 11, 2017

I miss baths!

100 facts

January 5, 2017

So one of my best friends sent this to me years ago at the beginning of our friendship. I’ll find my original post I sent him and share it eventually.  but for now…I’ll start from scratch.


1. I am left handed

2. my sign is Cancer

3. I’m only 5’4″.  I’m short

4. I was born in Florida

5. and I lived there until 2014

6. when I moved to Oklahoma

7. I am bisexual.

8. actually, I’m pansexual but it’s easier to say bi.

9. I am an eclectic pagan

10. I follow an Egyptian Norse Celtic path

11. I believe soul mates aren’t necessarily lovers.

12. my favorite color is forest green

13. I have tattoos and body piercings

14. 13 is my lucky number

15. I have 3 best friends.

16. 2 in Florida and 1 in Poland.

17. they know me better than I know myself

18. I love Marilyn Manson

19. I write erotica

20. and I’ve been told I’m damn good at it.

21. I am an avid reader

22. I’m upset that my new job doesn’t allow e time to read or write.

23. I miss the ocean.

24. I love to cook

25. I’m a sucker for a sense of humor

I’m gonna do this in clips. I’m tired.

New steps

April 2, 2014

I have two job interviews this week. In Boston.  1300 mikes away…

Terrified? Check
Excited?    Check
Ready to actually start a life?



October 24, 2013

My ink tells a story. Every one of my tattoos mean a lot to me. I cant imagine life without my ink.

That being said, I had a conversation tonight about one of my pieces. I was asked if I was considering covering it up.

My reply was a resounding no. While the sentiment behind the piece has changed, it is still an important piece to me.

But, truth be known…I’m already thinking about changing it. Not a cover up, but something that makes it mine.  I’ve actually been thinking about this for over a month now.

Not sure how I can change it, but I absolutely am.

Here I am

September 4, 2013

I’m happy to announce that I’m back online!!!

Fuck you, Monday

August 19, 2013

As I was speaking with a family member, I dropped my hand….right into my very tall cup of coffee.

Luckily, I drink it warm not hot.

The floor, the extension cord, my headphones…..and yes….me. 


Trying to find the humor in this, I think “well, if any of you were interested as to what I taste like….French vanilla. It’s a very good flavor.